PinnedI Broke Down in Front of My Kids on My Last Night of My Perfect on Paper LifeWhat happened when I couldn’t contain my emotions anymore. — I lost my shit in front of my kids the last night we all lived in one home. Up until then, I had managed the emotions of my divorce quite well. I would put myself in an emotional time-out if I felt grief welling up inside me. …Divorce6 min read
Published in In Fitness And In Health·PinnedHere’s What Happened When I Stopped Drinking for 30 Days and Started Ice Creaming InsteadHow I became dessert curious (and I’m not mad about it) — Cutting alcohol out of my life was surprisingly easy. It started with a 30-day Dry June challenge, followed by a public declaration of identifying as sober curious. In this article on VeryWellMind, Sara Sheppard says being sober curious is the option to choose, question, or change your drinking habits for…Sobriety5 min read
May 6Here’s How My Mountaintop Break Down Taught Me to Overcome My FearsGoing up was easier than coming down. — My heart is in my throat. Reality is sinking in — and I haven’t been this scared in a very long time. …Lifestyle8 min read
Apr 13Here’s How I’m Upcycling My Life As a Recovering PerfectionistLetting go is peaceful AF. — “I don’t feel right, I need to lay down.” Even as I uttered these words, I knew what was wrong. I was slipping into energy-draining tendencies. My old demons were creeping back in. I had been awake since the wee hours of dawn. My mind stuck in a perpetual hamster…Lifestyle5 min read
Published in Working Moms·Apr 3My Biggest Screw Ups in 6 Months of Single ParentingYour crisis is nobody else’s crisis. — Five months ago, I was losing my shit at a pumpkin patch. I had two school-aged kids, one naughty AF puppy, and a wheelbarrow full of semi-grotesque and heavy pumpkins. …Psychology7 min read
Mar 193 Ways I’m Untraining My Ego to Perform as an Athlete at 40#3 I’m bringing sexy back to carbs and my digestive system is thanking me. — Somedays, I don’t know what the fuck I got myself into…but once I put something out into the Universe, I’ll be damned if I don’t follow through. What started as a New Year’s resolution has quickly become an obsession. I started training for a sprint distance triathlon the first week…Fitness7 min read
Feb 16My 15 Day Meat-Free Experiment Had Mixed ResultsWhy being a part-time vegan may not be the best way to pursue a plant-based diet. — My plant-based journey had an unremarkable start. I’m not sure when or how I started dabbling in fake meat, but I found myself impulse buying faux sausage (I feel like there’s a life metaphor in there somewhere) at the grocery store each trip. At the time, I was weaning from…Fitness7 min read
Feb 6Souls Melding into MirrorsA twin flame love story. — Love1 min readPhoto by We-Vibe Toys on UnsplashSouls Melding into MirrorsA twin flame love story.----
Feb 5Here’s How I’m Learning to Be Naked and Not Afraid in a New Relationship After 40Nudity and vulnerability after 40 is a mind game. — Getting naked as a 40-year-old divorcee is a mind-fuck. After spending almost two decades with the same person, getting vulnerable with someone new is an even bigger learning curve. Let me preface this article by admitting: Nudity at any age can be intimidating. Many people will think I’m crazy for…Relationships5 min read
Jan 26I’m Finally Ready to Reveal the Idea That Possessed Me 5 Months AgoThe story of “This & That.” — Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night, possessed by ideas, thoughts, concepts, words for stories, and poetry — and I can’t go back to sleep until whatever’s inside of me comes out. Five months ago, an idea came to me for a business concept, design, and logo…Side Hustle6 min read